Sleeping Arrangements - What is the Cuckold's Favorite?

As a wife and her Bull become more familiar with one another, develop and emotional connection and deeper intimacy, they're going to be spending more nights together.   I'm not talking about date nights, but those tpyes of nights where the sleep and wake up the next morning in the same bed.   For many couples, the first time it happens is a pretty big step.

 I know my blog here has been very dormant and I don't get that many readers, but I'd be interested to hear from some cucks or their wives about which sleeping arrangements they like best, which ones causes them the most angst, arousal, etc?

I'm particularly interested if cucks enjoy having the Bull sleep in their marital bed, or their wives staying at the Bull's home?

Cuckold Confessions

Food for thought picked up from a cuckold on Tumblr -

"A cuckold’s jealousy is likely to be greater watching their wife in an intimate moment filled with sensual kisses and caressing than being made to watch them having sex."

The quote is actually my paraphrasing a portion of a chat I had with the cuckold during which he shared some of the more difficult aspects of seeing, (or knowing about) his wife with another man.  Knowing that she actually has feeling for him bothers him more than the raw sex.

I thanked him for sharing that.  I guess it's good to for bulls to know such things.

Karl

Things Cucks Hear Their Wive's Say

Waiting out the pandemic so I can hook up with a very hot and sexy middle aged professional married woman (Madame X), she's given me a little bit of fodder for the blog.

She seems to be what many betas might call a "Dream Cuckoldress" the way she treats her "hubwife!"

Anyhow, she sent me some memes for the blog....

How many will know?   Do I have a say?

I have no intention of "taking" anyone away from their cuckolds.  However, I'm also willing to accept an "offer."

I like this one the best.  I really look forward to seeing how small "hubwife" is!

Karl

Keeping the Mrs. Happy

Sure I like to have hot sex with a married woman, but it's not just about me.

There's plenty in it for them as well, not to mention the joy it brings to a cuckold's heart.

Just consider it a public service on my part.

Karl

An Alpha Male's View of Things

The following are some thoughts about beta males from an Alpha Male's perspective.  I agree with many of them but not all.

I'd be very interested in getting some feedback on each of these, especially from beta males, cuckolds, sissies, etc.  Alphas are also welcome to contribute.  You can email me your feedback:  cpadomaz123@gmail.com. 

• Women are sexually attracted to Alpha males because we have strongly masculine attributes: physical size, strength, and emotional stoicism. Women are quite happy to get fucked by an Alpha male, but biologically, they need someone to help provide when the baby is born. 

• Even in the absence of conception, this is still a woman’s biological imperative: find the best genes to pair with her own for her offspring, and then find the best support available to raise those offspring.

• The Alpha male has the best genes for the female’s offspring, but is not the best support available to care for the offspring. Why? Because the Alpha’s sperm is in high demand, he’s not interested in committing to one woman. He’s happy to fuck her regularly, but that’s the extent of his commitment.

• This is where the beta male comes in. The beta’s place is loving emotional support, and to help the female raise children. Betas possess far more feminine genes, qualities and characteristics that make them naturally more maternal.  Betas excel in support roles, but struggle in leadership roles. 

• The woman will periodically feel emotional bonding to the Alpha male who fucks her. This is a byproduct of the oxytocin released in her brain after her orgasm. Alpha males are generally not interested in emotional bonding with women, so the woman may feel some rejection.  Eventually, the woman understands and accepts this.

• Inviting an Alpha male into a marriage does not supplant the beta cuckold husband, but rather, it complements him. The woman has her sexual and emotional needs met, and that “work load” is shared by two men: Alpha and beta.

•  An Alpha Male, especially one who is a Bull understands this dynamic.  Most will make an effort to explain it to the woman and convince her to redirect the emotional bonding to her husband, so that she appreciates his value.

Thanks.


Karl

The Cuckold's Helping Hand

"Are you ready to give me a hand?"

The cuckold moved his head up and down.  The ball gag made it difficult for him to say anything as he knelt by us with his wife's pantied draped over his head.

The wife had just finished getting me rock hard with her mouth and I was ready to take her doggy style.  I think it was only my third time with Carol, the first two times were kind of mild by comparison to this. 

I felt it was time for the cuckold to show a bit more "willingness" to my fucking his wife, be more "complicit" in the escalation of our relationship and most of all, to show his obedience.

"I want you to guide my cock into Carol's pussy."

paula took my fully erect cock into his right hand.

"No line it up just right between those wet lips.  Just lay the head against it and let go."

paula did as he was told.

I love making a cuckold do this.  It's one of the true joys of cuckolding for me. 

Once he's done this, he's surrendering to me.

Karl

Younger Wives/Couples

All of my cuckolding experiences have been with couples whose kids are at least "mostly" out of the house.  Either "empty-nesters" or with kids in college, the opportunity to play freely, both the wife and the cuckold can let their hair down or lower the panties with plenty of freedom.

My limited experience made the reading of this post by "Ottawa Cuckold" all the more interesting.   The cuckold takes the kids out of the house while his wife, "mom", entertains a co-worker first, in the living room and then in their marital bed.  She later gives the cuckold the "all clear" text so he can bring the kids back home.

Truthfully, the naughtiness of it all had me a bit aroused while reading it, though I'm not sure the co-worker knew that the husband knew what the two lovebirds were doing while he was watching the kids.

No, it's not beneath me to have had an affair with a married woman with children.  However, I'm not sure I would have gone "full cuckolding" with the couple if they had younger children around.

The story has a lovely ending though.

I'd be interested in knowing what you think of it.

Karl

p.s.  One other thing; you really have to be careful with those younger moms...they're typically very fertile.

Cuckolding in a High Tech World

Sharing pictures with the cuckold of you and his wife together has always been a nice way to make him feel included.  But pictures "in the old days" used to look like this:

A Polaroid Instamatic might deliver a decent enough picture to tease if you were skillful enough to line up in front of a mirror, press the button and stay still enough to avoid blur.  But the cuckold wouldn't get to see the picture until it was delivered to him in person. 

In today's world, you can dick around (pun intended) with your iPhone until you get the shot you want and share with the cuck in real time.

Phone sex was still possible but had its limitations before cordless phones became prevalent.  I wasn't into cuckolding then but I can imagine there was still enough of it going on.  Today, foreplay can last all day if you want it to with incessant texting between you and the wife and on occasion, the cuckold.

But the advances made with video have had an amazing impact on cuckolding.  These new tools have been a great tool to develop and maintain the "bond" between the Alpha male, the wife and the cuckold.  Web services like zoom, google hangouts, etc. are easy to use and for the most part, free.

Last night I had a very entertaining online rendezvous with "Madame X", the woman I was very likely to "bed" before COVID-19 reared it's ugly head.  During our lengthy hi-tech tryst, she let the cuckold make a rather brief cameo appearance during which she let "her" out of her panties and chastity cage and ordered her to masturbate for me.

The poor thing struggled to get hard but did cum for me to Madame X's applause and sent to the shower to clean herself up.  A few minutes later she was squeezed back into the cage, locked up and told to leave us alone.

We went on to have a good time together.

Sure all this is great but.....

Karl

Phone Cuckolding

Last week I wrote how the COVID-19 virus has delayed my the start of a cuckold relationship with a lovely couple I met.  Though we're not sure exactly when I'll be "making things official" by taking her in their marital bed, the process is moving along quite nicely.

Late yesterday afternoon we exchanged texts and agreed to talk on the phone later in the evening.  I suggested that maybe it was time "we do more than just talk."  I didn't have to explain any further.

"I thought you'd never ask"she answered.  I then gave her a few "suggestions:"

• Call me at exactly 8:30 PM
• Be naked and laying on your bed
• Have your favorite toy by your side
• The cuckold should be kneeling at the foot of the bed

Like a good girl, she made the call at the right time with everything else in place.

Her first orgasm came at 8:41.  She had another close to 9 and one more before we signed off after 9:30.  

The cuckold knelt there until 9 PM until she dismissed "her" so we could chat privately.

I can't wait to make this official, but I know I'll have to.  This one is going to be worth the wait.

Karl

Putting a Crimp on Cuckolding

I've not had a cuckold couple in some time and things were just about to change until Covid-19 reared its ugly head.

I'd met the two of them socially before and had accepted a dinner invitation from them just when the proverbial "shit hit the fan."  In addition to all the social distancing measures that are in place, the two of them are in jobs that put them at the epicenter of this whole thing.  And so I wait, very patiently.  I think they'll be worth it.

In the meantime I've been in contact with the Mrs. via text, email and phone even though she's been very busy.  Our correspondence has been regular, insightful and increasingly sexually charged and suggestive.  It's given both of us an opportunity to learn more about each other and from my point, the cuckold as well.  I've always been open and very communicative in my other relationships but neither of those had the "buildup" that this one has. 

Reflecting on this has made me realize that patience is important and when things don't happen as quickly as you want them too, use the waiting time wisely.  I've also got to thinking that when things actually start happening, I might be wise not to rush them too quickly (something I have a tendency to do).  Teasing and buildup makes things more enjoyable for everyone. 

I think cuckolds tend to be impatient.  Like many submissives they like to top from the bottom, secretly keeping a kinky bucket list of things they want to happen and trying to act like directors in a poorly made movie or film.  They need to be reminded that things will happen but they won't always be what they want or when they want them to. 

I have my own bucket list, and so does the Mrs.  We'll end up making the decisions.

I'm looking forward to meeting, and so is she. 

Karl

Beta Anxiety

Submissive/beta males often suffer from plenty of anxiety and most all of it is related to their sex lives.  The anxiety comes from their inability to please their wives like an Alpha Male can.  A beta male typically suffers from premature ejaculation, a smaller than average penis and overall poor performance when it comes to penetrative sex of any kind.

On the other hand, the beta male is typically very talented when it comes to pleasing their wives orally.  Giving oral pleasure is an indication of their more accommodating personality.  The get plenty of pleasure and fulfillment by giving their wives orgasms this way. 

Despite these talents the beta male tends to focus on the aforementioned shortcomings because the modern woman has greater expectations when it comes to sex.  Having a wife with a high libido adds to the beta's anxiety. 

If the wife finds the right Alpha lover this new relationship usually solves the problem.  The right man will satisfy the wife and also help the cuckold accept his "re-focused" role in the marriage.  In the early stages this is difficult for the cuckold to accept.  He often resents the Alpha male's presence in their lives and feels frustrated that he can't do anything about it.  Eventually, the cuckold will come around and accept his new role.

Once the cuckold does that, he will admire the Alpha, defer to him, obey him and realize that being in the Alpha's presence even adds value to his life.

Karl

Lusty Lamapshades

Some women have novel ways of teasing their cuckolds.

Just be careful you don't start a fire while doing this.  Those bulbs can get pretty hot....just like the wives.

Karl

The Respectful Cuckold

Found this nice little posting on Tumblr the other day.  Jut thought I'd share:

Respecting Her Boyfriend

How can a husband let his wife’s boyfriend know he welcomes him in her life and respects his position as her primary lover? Here are a few ideas:

* Don’t avoid her boyfriend. While it may be awkward speaking with the man whom she prefers sexually, make the effort to be friendly and show him you welcome him into your home and your life.

* Make sure she is available for him. When he wants to see her, free up her schedule so she has the time to bond with him.

* Make him feel comfortable in your home. Stock his favorite drinks and offer him one as soon as he walks in. Be ready to offer a refill if he should need one. It wouldn’t hurt to offer him a sandwich (or breakfast), also.

* Don’t ask your wife for sex on her date nights. It’s rude to send her to him soiled.

* Ask your wife about his preferences. Buy her the type of lingerie he finds most appealing.

What other ideas do you have to show her boyfriend respect?

I found this on the Tumblr blog "Cuckold Stories" along with the following picture:

It's a very romantic picture, probably an indication that the cuckold experiences the most angst and arousal when there's more than just sex involved.  That's understandable.

As to the cuckold's request for "other ideas" to her boyfriend respect.  Let me offer one up.

How about filling in for the wife when she's not around so that the boyfriend gets what he wants when he wants it?

Karl

The Collared Cuckold

Carol had a thing for toys.  Bondage toys were her favorite, both for use on her and her cuckold paula.  The slim and finely toned paula knelt in stark contrast to the more buxom and curvy Carol.  Carol wasn't afraid to use her size to her advantage with the all-too-willing cuckold. 

I have to be honest and say that Carol could make a very imposing figure and impression upon a submissive man.  Her smarts, quick wit, sharp tongue and sexy looks could easily charm. 

"I think she needs a collar from you." Carol once told me.  "I've bought her several but coming from you would be kind of cool, you know?"

The discussion took place in their bedroom.  In their bed actually.  The cuckold off doing some monotonous domestic task she'd told her to do, we'd just finished making love and were cuddling. 

"I suppose" I said.  "Let me find one."

"I'll buy a leash and give it to you as a gift, wrap it up and everything" Carol said, her mind always going 100 mpg.  "I'll do it in front of her and you can open it.  She'll wonder what it's for.  Until you hand her your gift."

I laughed.  More in admiration of her creativity and kinkiness than anything else. 

I "collared" the sissy a few weeks later.  paula looked as submissive as ever as she devotedly knelt next to me and kissed my hand while I held the leash.

Then I took her for a walk around the house in nothing but her collar and panties.

Karl

Friends With Benefits

Cuckolding is a way to empower women.  I don't consider radical feminism for a woman to be able to have a "side guy" if she so chooses.  The freedom to go out with another man on a date, enjoy some intimacy and romance can do wonders for a woman's psyche and overall health.

It's particularly important when their intimacy and sex lives at home aren't what they should be. 

Karl

DIsciplining the Wives

I've slept with several married women.  Some were simply cheating on their husbands in secret, while others were openly cuckolding their spouses.

With only one exception, they all ended up over my lap for a spanking.  Each of them enjoyed it. And all of them either hadn't been spanked by their husband and if they had, didn't enjoy it. Also, I never spanked a woman who didn't want to get spanked.  I'm just not that type of man. 

The most pleasant experiences came when the husbands were watching me discipline the wives.  I even let a couple of them masturbate while I did it.  Of course, they had to ask for permission first.

Carol (the dominant half of a cuckold couple I played with) told me that my spankings made her want to spank her sissy husband when they got home!

I guess I'm pretty good at it.

This nice round target looks like it's in the early stages of a spanking.  I like her choice of colors.

Karl

Cuckold Couples

Most fun I've ever had was with two different couples who were into cuckolding.  The dominant wife/sub husband dynamic turned me on more than I ever thought it would.

Carol and paul/paula (not their real names) were also into chastity - his chastity that is.

Carol's complaint about paula was that he couldn't last very long and was a premature ejaculator.  Sex with him wasn't fun for her and he went along with just being her pussy licker.  Eventually she locked him up and used to brag to me (and supposedly some of her friends) that john was now "pussy free."

It's all a matter of semantics.  john was getting plenty of pussy with his mouth, lips and tongue.

I made it a point to make sure Carol wasn't "cock free."

Karl