Keeping the Mrs. Happy

Sure I like to have hot sex with a married woman, but it's not just about me.

There's plenty in it for them as well, not to mention the joy it brings to a cuckold's heart.

Just consider it a public service on my part.

Karl

An Alpha Male's View of Things

The following are some thoughts about beta males from an Alpha Male's perspective.  I agree with many of them but not all.

I'd be very interested in getting some feedback on each of these, especially from beta males, cuckolds, sissies, etc.  Alphas are also welcome to contribute.  You can email me your feedback:  cpadomaz123@gmail.com. 

• Women are sexually attracted to Alpha males because we have strongly masculine attributes: physical size, strength, and emotional stoicism. Women are quite happy to get fucked by an Alpha male, but biologically, they need someone to help provide when the baby is born. 

• Even in the absence of conception, this is still a woman’s biological imperative: find the best genes to pair with her own for her offspring, and then find the best support available to raise those offspring.

• The Alpha male has the best genes for the female’s offspring, but is not the best support available to care for the offspring. Why? Because the Alpha’s sperm is in high demand, he’s not interested in committing to one woman. He’s happy to fuck her regularly, but that’s the extent of his commitment.

• This is where the beta male comes in. The beta’s place is loving emotional support, and to help the female raise children. Betas possess far more feminine genes, qualities and characteristics that make them naturally more maternal.  Betas excel in support roles, but struggle in leadership roles. 

• The woman will periodically feel emotional bonding to the Alpha male who fucks her. This is a byproduct of the oxytocin released in her brain after her orgasm. Alpha males are generally not interested in emotional bonding with women, so the woman may feel some rejection.  Eventually, the woman understands and accepts this.

• Inviting an Alpha male into a marriage does not supplant the beta cuckold husband, but rather, it complements him. The woman has her sexual and emotional needs met, and that “work load” is shared by two men: Alpha and beta.

•  An Alpha Male, especially one who is a Bull understands this dynamic.  Most will make an effort to explain it to the woman and convince her to redirect the emotional bonding to her husband, so that she appreciates his value.

Thanks.


Karl

The Cuckold's Helping Hand

"Are you ready to give me a hand?"

The cuckold moved his head up and down.  The ball gag made it difficult for him to say anything as he knelt by us with his wife's pantied draped over his head.

The wife had just finished getting me rock hard with her mouth and I was ready to take her doggy style.  I think it was only my third time with Carol, the first two times were kind of mild by comparison to this. 

I felt it was time for the cuckold to show a bit more "willingness" to my fucking his wife, be more "complicit" in the escalation of our relationship and most of all, to show his obedience.

"I want you to guide my cock into Carol's pussy."

paula took my fully erect cock into his right hand.

"No line it up just right between those wet lips.  Just lay the head against it and let go."

paula did as he was told.

I love making a cuckold do this.  It's one of the true joys of cuckolding for me. 

Once he's done this, he's surrendering to me.

Karl

The Big & The Small of It

Carol's curves and ample ass were a beautiful thing to behold.  As ample as her ass was it was no match for the size of her sexual appetite.  It was no surprise then that her sissy's smaller-than-average sized little penis couldn't satisfy her and eventually ended up in chastity. 

It was also no surprise that she ended up cuckolding "Paula."

After getting to know the both of them real well and sharing in the most intimate of things I once asked her why she married him.

"He was the smartest guy I was ever with.  Seemed like the bigger the dick the dumber they were" was her answer.  Ouch!

"You're sort of the exception" she added with a big smile.  Nice that she clarified things. 

"She's also a great pussy and ass licker" she said about Paula.

Carol certainly took advantage of paula when it came to that.  The sissy was often summoned for both "before and after" service for the both us.

Carol was definitely "a lot of woman."

Way too much for a little man like paula.

Karl

Getting Closer to Cuckolding

"Get your results yet?" Madame X texted me yesterday.

I responded with two thumbs up.  She requested a series of tests to make sure I was "safe to take to bed" before we went much further.  I just happened to get the results yesterday and in an overabundance of safety, so did she.

"Good news isn't?" she asked me.

"I hope for both of us" I shot back.

"I'm hopeful" came back with a smiley face.

So.  I can't wait.  Her patience and the pandemic has left me with a raging hard on way too long.

Phone sex has been fun but...

I want to make this worth her while.

And worth mine.


Karl

Younger Wives/Couples

All of my cuckolding experiences have been with couples whose kids are at least "mostly" out of the house.  Either "empty-nesters" or with kids in college, the opportunity to play freely, both the wife and the cuckold can let their hair down or lower the panties with plenty of freedom.

My limited experience made the reading of this post by "Ottawa Cuckold" all the more interesting.   The cuckold takes the kids out of the house while his wife, "mom", entertains a co-worker first, in the living room and then in their marital bed.  She later gives the cuckold the "all clear" text so he can bring the kids back home.

Truthfully, the naughtiness of it all had me a bit aroused while reading it, though I'm not sure the co-worker knew that the husband knew what the two lovebirds were doing while he was watching the kids.

No, it's not beneath me to have had an affair with a married woman with children.  However, I'm not sure I would have gone "full cuckolding" with the couple if they had younger children around.

The story has a lovely ending though.

I'd be interested in knowing what you think of it.

Karl

p.s.  One other thing; you really have to be careful with those younger moms...they're typically very fertile.

Cuckolding in a High Tech World

Sharing pictures with the cuckold of you and his wife together has always been a nice way to make him feel included.  But pictures "in the old days" used to look like this:

A Polaroid Instamatic might deliver a decent enough picture to tease if you were skillful enough to line up in front of a mirror, press the button and stay still enough to avoid blur.  But the cuckold wouldn't get to see the picture until it was delivered to him in person. 

In today's world, you can dick around (pun intended) with your iPhone until you get the shot you want and share with the cuck in real time.

Phone sex was still possible but had its limitations before cordless phones became prevalent.  I wasn't into cuckolding then but I can imagine there was still enough of it going on.  Today, foreplay can last all day if you want it to with incessant texting between you and the wife and on occasion, the cuckold.

But the advances made with video have had an amazing impact on cuckolding.  These new tools have been a great tool to develop and maintain the "bond" between the Alpha male, the wife and the cuckold.  Web services like zoom, google hangouts, etc. are easy to use and for the most part, free.

Last night I had a very entertaining online rendezvous with "Madame X", the woman I was very likely to "bed" before COVID-19 reared it's ugly head.  During our lengthy hi-tech tryst, she let the cuckold make a rather brief cameo appearance during which she let "her" out of her panties and chastity cage and ordered her to masturbate for me.

The poor thing struggled to get hard but did cum for me to Madame X's applause and sent to the shower to clean herself up.  A few minutes later she was squeezed back into the cage, locked up and told to leave us alone.

We went on to have a good time together.

Sure all this is great but.....

Karl

Cuckolding Revisited

With social distancing still in place and anyone with an IQ above the idiot level being careful, real life cuckolding is in a holding pattern right now.  I have done a couple of creative sessions on zoom with the couple I've mentioned here before that have been lots of fun, but now's a good time to reminisce about some of my more enjoyable cuckolding experiences.

On the subject of penis size I'll admit I've been blessed.  It's not so large as to scare women away, but big enough to make then really want to at least "try it on for size."  So in many ways I've taken my size for granted.

Carol had just finished binding her sissy cuckold paula to a chair facing the bed with her panties rolled into a ball and stuffed into his mouth before she crawled on top of me, both of us still partially clad. 

"I love doing on top with you" Carol said.   I had to ask for a little more detail as to why.

"I cum every time" she said.  Simple enough answer. 

Was there any other reason or reasons...I wanted to know.

"You don't slip out of me like little dick over there" she said.

Call me perverted but her humiliation of the cuckold would turn me on.  And I couldn't help but notice it had the same effect on him.

No sooner had Mr. Happy slipped out of my briefs that she was sliding onto it. 

It never slipped out until it she climbed off, once again very satisfied.

I let her get on top some times but for the most part I like to call the shots.

Even though I had more favorite positions, I honestly loved them all.

Think of it as a sports analogy of sorts;  my size allowed me to play, and be effective at, all positions.

Karl

Frustration

Patience isn't something I'm good at and I'm practicing it just about every minute of every day now.

Waiting to get an order from the doctor to get an antibody test.  It could be a start to speed up the process.

I'd even settle for her sissy soon-to-be-cuckold to come over, do some housework for me and help relieve a little tension.

I keep my house pretty clean all by myself but a sissy's touch to the housekeeping is kind of nice.

But there's also something else that could use a good cleaning.

Karl

Sheltering in Place

This cute meme from the Under Contract to my Wife blog:

It wouldn't be so bad if it's average, but many cuckolds are below average and smaller.

Even though men with larger equipment aren't available during the pandemic (don't trust any that are willing to hook up), don't just settle for something that could only make things more frustrating for you.

There are plenty of sex toys available to be had.  Make in investment into your sexual and emotional health.  And find some creative ways to use them.

More than one wife has confided in me that head harnesses work pretty well.

Karl 

Foreplay with the Cuckold

Once a man becomes a cuckold, whether willingly or by finding out his wife is having an affair with another man, and accepts it, it's virtually impossible to totally exclude him from the dynamic.  How so you might ask...

Well, the psychological forces at play are simply too powerful to make the cuckold indifferent to what's happening.  He will always be wondering what's going on between his wife and her lover and his mind will always get the better of him. 

Keeping a cuckold "in the dark" so to speak certainly has its advantages and gives the wife and lover plenty of leverage.  But it's also important to involve the cuckold in some ways.  Foreplay is an opportunity to do that while keeping him away from the "main event."

I have fond memories of Carol kneeling in front of me with her mouth wide open ready to accept not my cock, but a shiny stainless steel butt plug that would soon be inserted in her plump round bottom.  It was her job to self lubricate the toy.

Beneath her also busy at work with his tongue deep up her butt was her cuckold paula, effectively smothered by her ample ass cheeks.  He was lubricating her so she could accept the plug.

Later (it could be one hour or several hours) I'd have Carol on all fours for the official "extraction" of the plug with paula kneeling by her side. 

The plug removed I'd simply say "Open" and paula would part her lips so that I could put the plug in her mouth for cleansing.

The cuckold never complained.  She knew the drill.  The better job she did licking, worshiping and cleaning Carol's ass earlier in the process, the cleaner the plug would be when I removed it 5-10 minutes later.

Once the plug was cleaned to my satisfaction, I'd think paula and I'd move to the main event with Carol, leaving the cuckold behind.

Karl

Beta Bois & Panties

Following up on my Size Matters post from the other day I just wanted to share a couple of opinions on that subject as it relates to cuckold crossdressers, a rather popular combination when it comes to those submissive males who kowtow to Alphas.

The first thought is that a lesser endowed male has to know that he can't physically please his wife in the same ways as a male who's well endowed.  Not that all men who are well endowed are good at pleasing women, but they at least have the necessary tools.  Knowing that he's inferior in that way, men with small penises have a greater tendency to fantasize about their wife taking on another lover. The acceptance of their inadequacy leads them to naturally become more submissive.

My second opinion is that men who crossdress have a tendency to want to take on a more submissive role with their wives.  While many are, or at least say they are still heterosexual, my experience is that it's not very hard to get them engage in bisexual behavior.  I'm certainly not an expert on crossdressing and haven't been with more than a few, and all three of them had small penises.  I believe most of them fantasize about being cuckolds.

So for me, the best cuckold couples are those that have assertive wives and submissive sissy husbands.  I'm at a stage of my life where I probably wouldn't settle on anything else.

 Cuckold crossdressers....they're so cute aren't they?

Karl